Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” Luke 23:34

There are two locations in Jerusalem where it is thought Jesus spoke these words.

The first site is within the large and ornate Church of the Holy Sepulchre. At the top of steep stone steps is the Altar of Calvary. Here pilgrims line up to kneel and touch the rock believed to be where the cross of Jesus stood.

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The second setting is near the Garden Tomb. From one corner of the Garden you can see a craggy rock face. In it are hollows resembling the eyes and nose sockets of a skull, although I found it hard to discern. This is thought to be Golgotha, which means the place of the skull, an alternative site of Jesus’ crucifixion.

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The cliff overlooks a busy bus station with vehicles arriving and leaving, puffing out grey smelly exhaust, and people going about their daily business.

If this is Golgotha, the place of Jesus’ death, then those around pay little regard.

So, it is not too difficult to imagine Jesus repeating these words today: “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.”

The Son of God died with the weight of humanity’s sin on his sinless shoulders. Disregarded by most men and women, his only concern was the forgiveness of individuals.

Mark 2:10 tells us Jesus came to earth with authority, usually reserved for God his Father, to forgive sins.

Jesus came to do the work of God and to hand out pardon.

And the power of the Almighty God to forgive each of us dwells in Jesus Christ.

So what can we learn from Jesus about forgiveness?

Jesus taught the nature of forgiveness.

Jesus explained the mercy we receive from God is closely wrapped up with the leniency we extend to other people.

We are instructed to forgive other people because God has forgiven us.

Jesus also warned, in the parable of the unmerciful servant, if we don’t show clemency to other people, God cannot absolve our wrongdoing. That we must forgive other people if we want to be forgiven by God is a sobering thought.

Jesus modeled forgiveness.

On the cross, Jesus fulfilled his own command given in Matthew 5:44 to love your enemies.

And, as someone who was truly human, if Jesus wanted to remain sinless, then he needed to forgive too. It is no wonder the words forgive them were his dying prayer.

Jesus still intercedes for our forgiveness.

Scripture tells us Jesus is sitting in the place of honor at God’s right hand, pleading for us.

Without Jesus’ death and resurrection we would not know what it is to receive God’s grace, to have our wrongdoing completely removed and no longer remembered by God, and to be able to start afresh when we have messed up yet again.

As Easter approaches and we remember what Jesus has done so we can be always forgiven, let’s use this time to extend forgiveness to others, especially those who have hurt us and do not realize what they have done.


Luke 23:26-43, Matthew 18:21-35

Get a fresh perspective on familiar verses by using BibleGateway.com to read several translations.


How did Jesus model the type of forgiveness he taught in the parable of the unmerciful servant?  Is that kind of forgiveness part of your lifestyle? Read When We Can’t Forgive for more thoughts on forgiving when it’s hard.


Is there someone that you need to extend forgiveness to today?  Maybe someone who does not even realize how they have hurt you?


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  • You’ve offered a lot of food for thought here. Thank you for this insightful post. I’d never thought about the idea, that Jesus had to forgive in order to remain sinless. Those final words of his, on the cross, never fail to make me feel complete awe and gratitude.
    Thank you for linking with Grace and Truth last Friday. I would love to feature this post, for Grace and Truth, this Friday.

  • Great post! Love your Read Reflect Respond…I, too, wrote my reflections following a 12-day journey to the Holy Land as one of 850 ladies who traveled for the filming of Beth Moore’s Bible study, Jesus, the One and Only…I will never be the same again…many blessings to you ❤️

  • Rachel what a pleasure to finally visit your site! I have seen you in several link ups. In fact I was all set to read your post but ended up taking my mother to see the movie Rise. What a beautiful movie. I love what you are doing here on your site. I am definitely going to subscribe for your Ebook. I may never make it to the Holy land so i look forward to seeing it through yours lens. I am always blessed by another Christian bloggers story as everyone is unique in their own special way and God wants us to share it. I am thankful for my Savior and the love that he bestows on me each day. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. I am definitely looking forward to returning here and being inspired once again. May God continue to richly bless you and yours and have a wonderful week!

    • Horace, I’m honored to have you visit. And I’m so glad you’re signing up for the Holy Land ebook. I hope it enlightens, encourages and educates you as you hope to do for others. I just popped over to your site and read your story of suffering but how God beautifully touched your heart and now you are living for him. And I love the photo of the lamb.

  • There are so many thoughts here! But, yes, it is a great time to think about forgiveness and what Jesus went through for us. Thanks so much for sharing!

  • I’m working through Mt. 6 right now and pondering the beauty of the forgiveness equation that is there. And also reading in Hebrews about Jesus’ intercession for us. It’s beautiful to be reminded that part of Jesus’ intercessory work must be in praying that we will follow His instruction to let go of the wrongs and live in the freedom of forgiveness. Thanks for connecting these dots for me this morning!

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